#painful sex /WOMEN - PAINFUL INTERCOURSE Pain in the {vagina} when the {penis} penetrates, or during or after sexual intercourse is not uncommon & may be due to emotional or physical reasons. Whatever the cause, see your doctor since painful sex may affect sexual desire permanently. Common causes include: $1 soreness from childbirth (may last up to 6 weeks) vaginal infection (see 'General Problems - Women' section) lack of lubrication (see 'Women - Lubrication' section) {anxiety} (see 'Sexual Anxiety' section) {menopause} (see 'General Problems - Women' section) bruising & general soreness (over-enthusiastic sex) $1 Most treatments for these causes are covered in other sections. Some other common reasons for pain may include deep penetration (try another position) & very frequent sex (stop for a few days). Whatever your problem, seek medical advice to eliminate the possibility of any underlying serious condition.